‘You are not allowed to touch me in public. You are not allowed to tell anyone that I’m your wife. You are not allowed to tell anyone that we stay together.’ Under the pressure of their parents, Lu Jinnian and Qiao Anhao were forced to get married. Qiao Anhao knew that their marriage would be cold in public and burdensome in private, so, on their marital night, she gave him three ultimatums&h.e.l.lip; **’Nation Husband’ is a Korean term awarded to a man who is perfect in the eyes of the public – an ideal husband.